1 Corinthians 4:21

19 But I will come to you shortly, if the Lord is willing, and then I will find out not only what these arrogant people are saying, but what power they have.

20 For the kingdom of God is not a matter of talk but of power.

Which do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and with a gentle spirit?

Do read the surrounding verses too, because the context often says more than a single verse.

Compare

BSB
Which do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and with a gentle spirit?
KJV
What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?
WEB
What do you want? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?
ASV
What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?
DARBY
What will ye? that I come to you with a rod; or in love, and [in] a spirit of meekness?
BLB
What do you⁺ want? Should I come to you⁺ with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?
ÅB
Hva vil dere? skal jeg komme til dere med ris, eller med kjærlighet og saktmodighets ånd?
OTB
Hva foretrekker dere? At jeg kommer til dere med en stokk, eller med kjærlighet og en ånd av mildhet?
B1930
Hvad vil I? skal jeg komme til eder med ris, eller med kjærlighet og saktmodighets ånd?

Study notes (Tyndale)

Original text and word study

Cross references

  • 2 Corinthians 13:2

    I already warned you the second time I was with you. So now in my absence I warn those who sinned earlier and everyone else: If I return, I will not spare anyone,

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  • 2 Corinthians 13:10

    This is why I write these things while absent, so that when I am present I will not need to be severe in my use of the authority that the Lord gave me for building you up, not for tearing you down.

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  • 1 Thessalonians 2:7

    On the contrary, we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother caring for her children.

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  • 2 Corinthians 12:20–21

    For I am afraid that when I come, I may not find you as I wish, and you may not find me as you wish. I fear that there may be quarreling, jealousy, rage, rivalry, slander, gossip, arrogance, and disorder.

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  • James 3:17

    But the wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peace-loving, gentle, accommodating, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial, and sincere.

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  • 2 Corinthians 1:23

    I call God as my witness that it was in order to spare you that I did not return to Corinth.

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  • 2 Corinthians 2:3

    I wrote as I did so that on my arrival I would not be saddened by those who ought to make me rejoice. I had confidence in all of you, that you would share my joy.

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  • 2 Corinthians 2:1

    So I made up my mind not to make another painful visit to you.

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