1 John 3:18

16 By this we know what love is: Jesus laid down His life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.

17 If anyone with earthly possessions sees his brother in need, but withholds his compassion from him, how can the love of God abide in him?

Little children, let us love not in word and speech, but in action and truth.

19 And by this we will know that we belong to the truth, and will assure our hearts in His presence:

20 Even if our hearts condemn us, God is greater than our hearts, and He knows all things.

Do read the surrounding verses too, because the context often says more than a single verse.

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BSB
Little children, let us love not in word and speech, but in action and truth.
KJV
My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.
WEB
My little children, let’s not love in word only, or with the tongue only, but in deed and truth.
ASV
[My] Little children, let us not love in word, neither with the tongue; but in deed and truth.
DARBY
Children, let us not love with word, nor with tongue, but in deed and in truth.
BLB
Little children, may we love not in word nor in tongue, but in work and in truth.
ÅB
Mine barn! la oss ikke elske med ord eller med tunge, men i gjerning og sannhet!
OTB
Små barn, la oss ikke elske med ord eller tale, men med handlinger og i sannhet.
B1930
Mine barn! la oss ikke elske med ord eller med tunge, men i gjerning og sannhet!

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